Hi Freddiekatt
I cut and pasted these three items from your post.
1. "This has been 3 weeks of this and I think I'm at the point that I have to just go cold turkey if you will.. enough is enough! I've tapered. I'm at a very low dose...a quarter of the 30 mg....so whats that....like 8 mg a day? I've given my poor brain time to get off...3 weeks. So can I just stop at this point?"
2. "I have a small amount in my system...less than 10 mg"
3. "So can't I just stop at this point and heal?"
1. You have been pretty much cold turkey up to this point because of the erratic nature of your tapering. Cutting the dosage in half or putting in steps is cool turkey. Maybe not cold turkey, but close enough to bring on the symptoms of withdrawal. The most effective tapering I know of is a slow taper on a constant slope (example: day one take out 2 beads; day two take out 4; day three take out 6, and so on). Even so, you will still have withdrawal symptoms, but milder.
2. Even if you had the full 30 mg in your system and you quit today, it would be 99.9% out of your system in 5 days. But you would be in full-blown cold-turkey withdrawal for a number of weeks. (What's up- the drug is gone?) The drug changes your brain, and how it functions. The drug maintains the altered condition (it slows the re-absorption of the neurotransmitters serotonin and norepinephrine back into the brain), so when the drug is gone, your brain has to scramble to physically alter itself and re-learn how to do this work again on its own. It's scrambling to stabilize itself and simultaneously it screams out to you, "A little help here! For God's sake pop a capsule. . . I don't know if I can re-set!!"
And the equilibrium it arrives at cannot possibly be exactly as it was before you started the drug, but it will close enough- after all, it's an emergency repair.
3. Yes, you can stop at any point and heal. The question is how can you tolerate the discontinuation symptoms? The symptoms are easier to bear when you taper off slowly. Is there any difference to how your brain ends up- cold turkey or tapering? I don't think so, but fishinghat would know the answer to that.
You can do this! Stay strong and make a plan and do it. It helps you- and all of us here- if you continue to post your progress.
Best wishes.