Renee, that is not "a plan," it's a way to ruin the lives of your husband and children ... ending your own life will also end theirs ... you would also do terrible harm to all of us here ... think of all of us, who are working so hard on recovering and healing .... it would, I know, put an end to my healing ... ..... how would you be helping your amazing son, who wants to do his research paper on Cymbalta? your daughter who is also so talented? your husband?
if you are truly suicidal, and genuinely have this "plan," you must, absolutely must, tell your doc and get help ... suicide is an irreversible decision ... for you ... and the fact that you are doing so many wonderful, creative things shows just how much you love life, and love living it ...
you need the best possible therapist ...you need to be talking with, working with, someone who can help you with these feelings ... I can't recall, and I can't find any earlier posts from you that talk about this ... do you have a good therapist now?
Is it the pain that's doing this to you? please talk to us about this ... is it fibro pain ... physical? or is it emotional pain?
Look dear heart, we love you and care about you ... and we want to help you get better .... I'm on my way back to bed after one of my old fart pee breaks ... and now I'm going to lie there worrying about you ... and praying for you ...