Agreed with Hat - you are doing better than me in that perspective. I am just too sensitive. But you keep going and just take it slow. Don't let this new chick be a rebound. You may have hit the jackpot first time round which would be great... but you are embracing the change SO well and that is how it is done.
Looks up some Alan Watts videos on change on YouTube. They will for sure help you AJ...
Look after yourself brother,